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Four Reasons Other Family Members Get Weird about Caregiving

Your other family members could make your job as a caregiver much easier or they can make it more difficult. When they do complicate things, it might be hard for you to believe that they’re not doing it just for spite. Family dynamics are something you might have to examine in more detail.

 

Home Care in Cumming GA: Caregiving and Family Members


Home Care in Cumming GA: Caregiving and Family Members

 

Prior Relationships and Situations Have a Strong Hold

How things were in the past still impacts the here and now, especially with you, your senior, and other family members. Those old relationships and how those worked out can be really impactful on how your family members deal with what’s happening now. Those reactions may not be what the situation calls for, though, and that’s where conflict rears up.

 

Changes Often Create Waves

There’s a lot going on, particularly if your senior’s health is fragile. That can bring a variety of new feelings and situations to the forefront that you and your family members have never faced before. These are important to acknowledge because when you add those to the old relationship issues, there’s a lot that gets a shortcut and that isn’t always a good thing.

 

They May See You as a Competitor

Other family members might be running a race with you that they don’t really think about. In the past, you might have competed for attention from your senior and now that you’re her caregiver, that race might be on again. What you all need to be focused on is how to provide the best care possible for your senior, but that can sometimes take a back seat.

 

You Can Learn to Trust Each Other

Your other family members need to understand that the decisions you’re making are about doing what you can for your senior. Everything from making sure she sees her doctor to hiring elder care providers is a carefully thought out decision that has a positive impact. You may need to trust that they’re trying to have her best interests at heart too, though. Trusting each other can help you to open up the lines of communication.

The bottom line is that your other family members need to be there for your senior if they can. That might mean that they need to work their way past differences with her and with you. In the end, getting on board with what’s needed can give all of you the peace that you need.

 

The staff at Home Care Matters is available to talk with you and your family about all of your needs. Home Care Matters is a home care agency providing quality and affordable Home Care in Cumming, GA, and surrounding areas. Call (678) 828-2195 for more information.

Valerie Darling, Founder, Owner

Founder, Owner at Home Care Matters
Valerie Darling is the founder & owner of Home Care Matters. It was through Valerie’s own personal experience of caring for her mother, Dee Darling, for 5 yrs that the business was born.

Valerie has 30 yrs of Corporate experience with Fortune 100-500 companies in Sales, Customer Service, & Senior Management. She has taken that professional experience along with a personal vision of how to provide a better experience, service & quality of care. She determined that the best way to do this was to start a local, community-based business that is personalized, customized, with heart-felt care & a passion for people (both clients & caregivers) & is obsessed with service.

‘Our goal is to have clients stay independent in their own homes, where they are happiest, by providing a safe, nurturing, & safe environment.’ Valerie’s mom Dee laid expectations for her own personal caregivers, and we provide the same expectations for your family.


Clients & caregivers can meet before starting our care program and you can give your caregiver your own "DEE" Test:
"If we wouldn’t want them caring for our mom, then we’re not placing them with yours". We are firm believers in personality compatibility along with the skill requirements for a personal placement & we hire based upon that rather than just a ‘warm body’.