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Four Reasons Your Senior Doesn’t Seem to Appreciate All that You Do

You might have heard people saying that caregiving is a thankless task and that can be true. If you’re looking for rewards or appreciation for all that you do, you might be feeling a little bit dejected right about now. There are lots of reasons why you might have those emotions.

 

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It’s Difficult for Her to Express Her Feelings

Your senior may not be able to share with you that she sees what you do and that she appreciates it. That might be because she has emotional blocks to sharing her feelings or she might have cognitive illnesses that change how she interacts with you. Regardless of the cause, just because she can’t tell you that she appreciates you that doesn’t mean she really doesn’t appreciate you.

 

It’s Tough for Her to See All that You Do

On the other hand, your elderly family member could have literally no idea all that you do for her. This could again be due to cognitive changes, but it can also be because you work so hard and you’re so efficient that your senior can’t see everything you touch. Again, this doesn’t mean that she doesn’t appreciate what you do. But it does mean you’re not likely to get a big pat on the back.

 

Her Own Situation Has Her Attention

Some aging adults are so deep in their own health issues and other concerns that they can’t see anything else. That might be where your elderly family member is right now. Keep in mind that she doesn’t want to be so wrapped up in her own health that she causes you to hurt. This isn’t really about your feelings, though, as much as that might sting.

 

She Resents that She Needs Help

Your senior may also feel resentful and angry that she needs help at all. That doesn’t have anything to do with you, but you may be the one feeling the brunt of that frustration on her part. There may be nothing you can do to help your elderly family member to deal with those feelings, either. She can work through them on her own, but it might take time.

 

In the end, you’re not doing this for the accolades, really. This is more about helping your elderly family member as much as you can. If you’re feeling seriously underappreciated, taking a break can be a good solution. Elderly care providers can take over for you and give you the break you need.

 

The staff at Home Care Matters is available to talk with you and your family about all of your needs. Home Care Matters is a home care agency providing quality and affordable Elder Care in Gainesville, GA, and surrounding areas. Call (678) 828-2195 for more information.

Valerie Darling, Founder, Owner

Founder, Owner at Home Care Matters
Valerie Darling is the founder & owner of Home Care Matters. It was through Valerie’s own personal experience of caring for her mother, Dee Darling, for 5 yrs that the business was born.

Valerie has 30 yrs of Corporate experience with Fortune 100-500 companies in Sales, Customer Service, & Senior Management. She has taken that professional experience along with a personal vision of how to provide a better experience, service & quality of care. She determined that the best way to do this was to start a local, community-based business that is personalized, customized, with heart-felt care & a passion for people (both clients & caregivers) & is obsessed with service.

‘Our goal is to have clients stay independent in their own homes, where they are happiest, by providing a safe, nurturing, & safe environment.’ Valerie’s mom Dee laid expectations for her own personal caregivers, and we provide the same expectations for your family.


Clients & caregivers can meet before starting our care program and you can give your caregiver your own "DEE" Test:
"If we wouldn’t want them caring for our mom, then we’re not placing them with yours". We are firm believers in personality compatibility along with the skill requirements for a personal placement & we hire based upon that rather than just a ‘warm body’.

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